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| Give me a minute.... I want to tell you how I really feel! TAKEN: APRIL 8th, 2022 |
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| Give me a minute.... I want to tell you how I really feel! TAKEN: APRIL 8th, 2022 |
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| Just a couple of life long friends catching up while unconditionally supporting each other. TAKEN: AUGUST 11th, 2016 |
I have been fortunate to be surrounded by amazing friendships my entire life.
The truth is, I can count the number of those wonderful peeps on two hands (with the help of a few of my toes). I suppose I relate to each and every one of those people by referencing the simple saying that, 'good friends are hard to find... and impossible to forget.'
The friendship I am sharing today started in the early throws of high school. I was a year older, and he was one of the most genuine and comedic people I had ever met. From that initial introduction, I simply wanted to get to know him better and spend more time with him. Just like yours truly, my parents loved absolutely everything about him.
He left our small town for university and never came back. I stayed, and I am still here. Yet, thanks to the evolution of the internet, I see him and hear his voice almost every single day.
The photo I am sharing was him stopping into my place of work to bring me lunch and catch up. He was on a solo cross Canada/US motorcycle tour that spanned more than fifteen thousand kilometers. It was the last time we've seen each other face to face outside of social media.
He was back to see his parents this past Christmas, and though my path of reconnection was paved with good intentions, I sat at my desk and worked on an eight million dollar construction estimate. Before I knew it, he was back on a jet plane and home again.
I expressed to my husband how disappointed I was that our window of time to visit had closed and he'd already left. My husband had a great suggestion.
He thinks we should simply hop a plane and show up unannounced at his post retirement storefront on Vancouver Island. Lord knows we'd know when he'd be there.
....Fortunately, we have his regular Facebook posts to thank for that!
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| Me, dealing with a terrible situation after my hairdresser unexpectedly turned me into a blonde! (I just keep on keepin' on!.) TAKEN: MAY 25th, 2023 |
Rise above the bullshit.
Flick your light back on.
Shine it brighter than ever.
Fall so deeply in love with your own life
that anyone who tried to wrong you
becomes a laughable,
ridiculous, distant, memory.
~ Unknown
My epiphany last spring was to finally stop giving others more latitude than they could ever be granted by others on a good day.
Instead of focusing on the colour I was dealt, I fired my hairdresser.
...And it felt really good!
Well, it is day four of the challenge and I am already behind the eight ball. A tad discombobulated if you catch my drift. It’s not that I have writers block, as that usually happens around the letter O.
With this being my eleventh
attempt at this marathon, the same thing happens every year. I think I am far
more organized than I really am, then in preparation to jump on a jet plane for my birthday trip, work trumps A-Z every time.
That said, what a difference a year makes. Aside from
sucking the hind tit on the challenge, my work life balance is amazing. I love
my job and am looking forward to the adventures I have planned for 2024.
The honest truth is that some days I just have more drive than others. There have been several times in the last decade where I have been a tad overwhelmed and wondered if this was the end of the challenging writing road for me.
If you’re stopping by for the first time, I am pleased to report that today isn’t that day!
As far as the word I selected for the letter D. Due to what
I have on my plate, I may be emotionally confused or uncertain that I will stay
on track for the challenge....
But say my word of the day three times fast. How fun was that ???
Then, once my husband and I married he explained how he'd always had a dog. To his credit, he did entertain a cat or two until he refused to getting a third. Instead, when I was getting ready to go off on maternity leave with Jukebox, we decided to get out first dog.
The methodology behind the decision was that I would be off work for sixteen weeks and I could house train a dog and change diapers as part of my daily routine. Well, my son slept through the night after three weeks, and I got up with the dog to take a leak in the night for almost six months!
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| An interesting vantage point of the inseparable Oreo Gang! Maya and Katie on the left and Annie riding solo on the right. TAKEN (left) March 2024 and (right) June 2020 |
Like a lot of people my age, from Monday to Friday I eat a banana in the morning.
Because I work from my home office everyday except Monday, as you can see in the photo on the left, the other four days I am expected to share my excellent source of potassium with my pups.
Today marks the start of my eleventh April A-Z Challenge.
Whether you're a regular reader or not, I can assure you that this month in particular always turns into a bit of a roller coaster ride for me. You know, a real writing adventure per se!
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| My buddy Dusty and I having a sunny winter snowbank adventure of our own. TAKEN: EARLY 1980's (photo credit to my late mom) |
From a very young age, I have always embraced writing. As I look back, I believe that part of me feels it was understanding the stages of the creative process itself that had me smitten from the start.
The thought preparation, development, cultivation, the editing, and finally the implementation. With my implementation now being when I hit my website publish button - not flipping the page of my lined scratch pad.
Then, when my kids left the nest, on that fateful night in October 2011, I registered for Blogger and the rest is history.
Writing for me is like the game of golf. Just because I like doing it, doesn't mean I am any good at it.
I read somewhere that adventure starts by standing still. In my case, for the last ten Aprils, adventure has always started with a blank page and the letter A.
Wish me luck - I am going to need it!!
It's that time of year again, where I look to the jar of nuts I have squirreled away all winter and decide how many of those precious gems I am going to spend on each venue, creating a great 2024 concert season.
Since starting my newest position two and half years ago, I have gotten into the habit of transferring the monies I am paid to do site visits and inspections into a savings account. Knowing full well, that those dollars/nuts will be earmarked for more bucket list tickets.
Because he is in such demand, and focuses primarily on playing football stadiums, my No Shoes Nation buddy won't be headed north of the boarder anytime soon. So, I knew eventually hopping a plane to see him perform was going to be a must.
Then, shortly after Jimmy Buffet passed, and he and fellow parrot head Zac Brown decided to join forces for their Sun Goes Down Tour. I immediately began making plans to head to into downtown Chicago for our wedding anniversary in June.
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| Though not a concert, the next tickets to be added here will be for my hubby. A 1pm start on June 14th at Wrigley Field (Cubs vs Braves) TAKEN: MARCH 21st, 2024 |
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| You never know who you're going to want to kiss walking Broadway in Nashville! #imabigfan TAKEN: OCTOBER 10th, 2024 |
Not the most earth-shattering news I have ever shared here - but in this instance, my hair was the longest it had ever been in my life. The truth is I hadn't allowed anyone or anything near my tresses (except my very dull kitchen scissors) since that tearful day last May when I fired my hairdresser.
To be honest, I did wait a couple of days after a Edweena Scissorhands and her barrel of bleach did their deed, before posting about it here. All these months later, my disappointment in what was promised versus what was delivered still really pisses me off!
Anyway, because my hair was already frail, I took a step back and except for root touch up spray to kill the glare, I let it rest for more than two months. Then, through online research, I discovered a natural gloss that washes out which I could apply to cover the blondeness; until my grey could grow out and be blended in with highlights.
You can tell by the picture I am sharing today that by last October, my hair was brittle and because of the overall weight of the length, it looked like crap. It didn't matter what I did. The thing that was once my best accessory, was looking like that super annoying cousin no one wanted to admit they were related to.
Wait, it gets worse. Without notice, my hair started coming out in large clumps in the shower and by the end of January it was significant. My buddy Google said that by repeatedly pulling my hair tightly on the top my head, it was most likely a type of hair loss called traction alopecia.
I knew it was time. My hair was so damaged that most everything below shoulder length needed to go. So it did. I told my new gal to get rid of everything that needed to go when she very diplomatically said, 'you can come back in a week and we can take more off, it really is best to do this in stages so you can get use to it.'
She was very empathetic to my journey, and she was absolutely amazing.
I guess as I sit here and type I wonder how the hell I went from holding my hand up to my ear saying loudly, 'Sorry so-in-so, I can't hear you over the volume of my hair!' To trolling Amazon for hair growth oils and hair thinning solutions.
Three little words.
Middle age sucks. That is all!
Actually, that is six words... but I think you catch my drift.
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| A very powerful photo of reflection snapped as the sun began to set on December 25th. TAKEN: DECEMBER 25th, 2023 |
As the year comes to a close at midnight tonight, there is so much I am very thankful for. So much so, that I have no idea where to start.
What I will highlight is that our wee, four legged blondie/Oreo filling, simply stole the show (as well as at least a half dozen of my perfectly good slippers). And, that I can finally admit I have discovered a perfect work/life balance; solidifying the saying 'life is short' as my personal mantra.
Thanks for the memories 2023. They are truly respected and appreciated. I feel blessed that I have such great hope for an even better 2024.
All the best in the coming year everyone. Cheers to all, and thank you once again for reading.
~ Rhondi
PS: With the past year 99.9% in the rearview, as you reminisce with me electronically you can click links to journal offerings that you may have missed, or wish to revisit.
Most Memorable Moment (centre): The addition of the beautiful Katie Lulu, that arrived to her new home on January 31st, 2023. She has proven to be a much welcome thread to the newly reunited Oreo Gang and we love her very much. Thanks again @labradorables
(LINK TO RE-READ: NEVER, UNTIL NOW! )
January: The unexpected and shocking murder of my former coworker Ashley Milne (top left) in Collingwood. I have spent the year following this terrible and unnecessary tragedy in hopes her amazing spirit didn't die in vain. Please keep her and her young children in your thoughts and prayers.
(LINK TO RE-READ: A IS FOR ASHLEY)
February: With my sweet Puddin' passing in June of 2022, we thought for sure The Oreo Gang would be displaced for years. That said, with our addition of Katie, Family Furbaby Day was once again a great success.
(LINK TO RE-READ: OUR ANNUAL ADVENTURE)
March: After checking the Salvation Army Store in Gravenhurst for more than twenty years, I was ecstatic to find four more of my wonderful Petro Canada water glasses for the very first time. In a stinking blizzard no less!
April: I always look forward to my birthday trip and this year was no exception. We hit Vegas Baby! What do you do in Vegas if you have no desire to gamble? Guess you'll have to read to find out! (There are also other offering though my April A-Z posts.)
(LINK TO RE-READ: K IS FOR KNACK)
(LINK TO RE-READ: L IS FOR LOGISTICS)
May: For the first time in more than a decade, I moved to the cottage for the summer. I set up a satellite office and only commuted to work Monday mornings for meetings. I kept telling my husband that we should have named Katie '649'... Because that pup definitely won the lottery.
June: A milestone anniversary had us hop a plane to Montego Bay for the weekend to celebrate. My dad's birthday the 9th and our anniversary the 11th it made for a great reason to getaway. Though we stayed in a much smaller resort hotel than we usually do, we had a great time.
(LINK TO RE_READ: FROM FEAR TO FEARLESS)
July: July was an amazing weather month. I worked for most of it sitting at my desk in a bathing suit. The only thing I enjoyed more was spending time with Goob in the water. You know, it doesn't matter how old they get, I just love having them around.
August: As reminisce about the year gone by, I think it had to be the 'year of the concert'. I think there were seven in total, with four being my country quartet. From a bucket list perspective, Chris Stapleton won that prize. Man, Budweiser Stage is a great venue.
(LINK TO RE-READ: MY COUNTRY MUSIC QUARTET)
September: Per the work plan, we added another layer to our estimating team, a new project coordinator. I began her training right the first week of September, so I moved home to have a shorter commute. Labour Day Monday (Lab + Our Day as the photo shows) was my last day living at the cottage full time. Made no matter, it was a really great month!
October: This nod goes to spending Canadian Thanksgiving week in Nashville. Boy, did we cram as much in as possible before returning home. The Mother Church of Country Music left me speechless, as did almost everything about this amazing city - including the Opry.
(LINK TO RE-READ:SIMPLY, UNFORGETABLE
November: They say some of the best decisions you make are the ones you think about the least. Well, we bought another boat. A 20 foot Doral bowrider that gets delivered the first week of May (weather pending). Can't wait to load up the pups...
(LINK TO RE-READ:WE BOUGHT ANOTHER BOAT)
December: Well this month is crammed with memorable moments. It closed out another milestone year at work, had us spend valuable time with family and friends, and our home was filling with both birthday and holiday spirit. Not just the birthday on the 25th but the 5th, when Katie celebrated her very first birthday.
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| TOP: Our festive holiday view of the falls in our sleepy little town BOTTOM: Watching the sunset, waiting for my coworkers to arrive. TAKEN: DECEMBER 15TH, 2023 |
Last Friday, my husband and I rented a large AirBnB home overlooking the Bracebridge Falls, and hosted an afterparty for fourteen; which included the seven coworkers I am closest with and some of their life partners.
I was pleasantly surprised by the individual reactions I received as they walked through to the kitchen and spied the gaggle of Petro Canada glasses neatly lined up on the counter. There was one on display for each of us.
None of them readers of my electronic journal, I told my story of how my collection of over two hundred glasses came to be, then poured them a spot of holiday spirit.
I explained that whomever enters my home for the first time, always has to raise a glass and have a drink with my dad. Because my home couldn't sleep ten like the rental could, I brought my glasses to them - as if they were entering my home for the very first time.
As I told the story, one of the project managers I work with (who is the same age as Jukebox) Facetimed his parents so that they could meet me and hear my silly story about my glass collection. Similar in age, they remembered when my conversation pieces were all the rage.
Then, as so many do, promised to keep an eye out for them in Southern Ontario and have their son deliver them to me. As it does whenever anyone offers to help grow my obsession, it warmed my heart.
As I reflect on the last year, I am grateful it has been exceptional. I think I finally have this work/travel life balance thing in check. I took the business to the next level at work AND I got to have a drink with my dad in some pretty cool places.
Under the stars at the Bellagio fountains Las Vegas, in the sun on a beach in Jamaica, rockin' Broadway in downtown Nashville, and with fourteen work buddies overlooking the beautiful Bracebridge Falls.
Life is really good!
And keeping my pops memory alive with my Petro Canada water glass collection is just an added bonus!!
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| Seated in the tenth row, waiting for the BNL to take the stage. TAKEN: DECEMBER 1st, 2024 |
I will start by saying that there was so much musical talent on that stage, it makes you proud that they are Canadian. And though I love their mainstream hits, I really enjoy their holiday offerings, and I am pleased to report that the evening offered a perfect blend of both.
Their comedic banter provided a ton of belly laughs and we headed home extremely entertained.
The buzz of listening to everyone exiting talk of how amazing it was was an added bonus, with both of us admitting it was far better than we were expecting it to be. Once again, money well spent, and another music concert ticked off the list.
My apologies about the photo quality. I left my phone and home and my husbands' needs to be put to pasture - PRONTO!
PS: Here's a great podcast link with Ed Robertson titled Don't Let Revenge Breed Resentment (click to listen)
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| The amazing Ed Roberton (center) flanked by Kevin Hearn (l), Tyler Stewart (drums), and Ed Kreegan (r) TAKEN: DECEMBER 1st, 2023 |
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| Performing my favourite song off 'Barenaked For The Holidays' CLICK TO LISTEN: God Rest Ye Merry Gentleman w/ Sarah McLachlan TAKEN: DECEMBER 1st, 2023 |
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| Bringing down the house with Brian Wilson! TAKEN: DECEMBER 1st, 2023 |
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| Seems I have everyone in the house looking for a great deal. Thanks for your help #OreoGang! TAKEN: NOVEMBER 26th, 2023 |
Several years ago, we were given a rustic and colourful plaque for the cottage that reads... “Don’t be too busy making a living, that you forget to make a life.” It was truly appreciated at the time, because the truth of the matter is we have always worked longer hours than most.
Though we've both worked a lot to acquire the little bit we have, I credit where we are at to the fact that we have never been shy when it comes to looking for a great deal. Take travel for an example, I don't think I have paid full price to get on a plane since we began all our galivanting without the kids in the winter of 2012.
Every year, I always seem to find that one gem that surfaces, for at least a day, book it, locking in the price. Did you know that there are some days better than others to book travel? It's true, and I have my discounted hotel and airline tickets to prove it.
Anyway, with our purchasing a boat, I figured that I wouldn't get to travel for my 2024 birthday. Then, as Black Friday approached I couldn't help but hunt for that one really sexy four night deal. Though I came close to hitting the 'BOOK' button on the Trip Central website, I refrained.
I know my husband is disappointed but he is the one that wanted the boat, and there are only so many pennies in the piggy bank. I have always been adamant that we never travel using our line of credit, it must to be part of our weekly savings stipend; which has been allocated elsewhere.
I'm sure something will come our way so that we can get out of dodge for a few days next April. But until it does, we need to remain focused on the fact that we have made a really expensive purchase and didn't increased our debit load.
As I sit here and type, I realize that our new twenty foot girl still remains unnamed. That said, as I look at the picture I am sharing this post I feel we should be leaning toward "The Paw Patrol."
I think it's perfect.... Because I know there will be six of them thar thangs (4 black and two yellow) making sure everyone on Orillia Lake knows they are on high alert, with their new ride confirming just what lucky pups they truly are!
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| One of the prettiest morning sunrises I have ever experienced at the house (no filter) TAKEN: OCTOBER 21st, 2023 |
You can imaging that the last thing we needed was our three
dogs getting sprayed when out for a pre-dawn pee, so that weekend we put up motion censored spotlights
around the yard and I purchased a 2000 lumen hand held spotlight so that I
could survey for eyes glowing in the yard before the dogs ventured out.
We've lived in our home more than twenty years and this is only the second time I have seen a skunk at dawn. The last time was more than ten years ago. I know they surround us but until this fall, our 6 a.m. schedules never crossed.
Anyway, this morning I had been out with the pups before my husband left for work and after pouring my second cup of java, I spied the most beautiful colours rising on the horizon. I grabbed my phone and headed back outside alone.
The colours were muted at first but as the sun rose higher, the colours intensified. It was absolutely breathtaking.
As expected, social media filled up with similar photos around Muskoka of the beautiful morning sky with the 'red sky at morning' reference.
Though I expect my red sky/skunk patrol will continue indefinitely, I don't expect to witness another sunrise as I did this morning for a very long time but there will always hope.
Speaking of hope, I hope we never cross path with them rascally striped smelly varmints we have been patrolling for every single morn...
Wish us luck on both counts!