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| Our rooftop view from the Plaza Forum By The Sea TAKEN: NOVEMBER 28th, 2028 |
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| A view of blue from our balcony... Having a drink with my DAD! TAKEN: NOVEMBER 24th, 2025 |
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| Even Beatlejuice was blue! TAKEN: NOVEMBER 28th 2025 |
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| Our rooftop view from the Plaza Forum By The Sea TAKEN: NOVEMBER 28th, 2028 |
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| A view of blue from our balcony... Having a drink with my DAD! TAKEN: NOVEMBER 24th, 2025 |
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| Even Beatlejuice was blue! TAKEN: NOVEMBER 28th 2025 |
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| Lxchel protecting Punta Sur... As we overlook the Carribean Sea. TAKEN: NOVEMBER 25th, 2025 |
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| Our hotel with a hole in it from the ferry! TAKEN: NOVEMBER 25th, 2025 |
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| Stunning views of the Carribean Sea. TAKEN: NOVEMBER 25th, 2025 |
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| Our YouTube v-log lunch recommendation was excellent 12 out of 10! TAKEN: NOVEMBER 25th, 2025 |
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| Peace out summer of 2025 TAKEN: NOVEMBER 2nd, 2025 |
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| Our girl embracing an autumn adventure. TAKEN: OCTOBER 17th, 2025 |
After our epic day of burning on Saturday
September 27th, we spent the next few weekends in town.
With a Baker’s Dozen dining with
us for Thanksgiving, I had to steam clean our carpets the weekend before. A
week after our turkey coma subsided, we were back to the cottage to begin
shutting it down.
Because my travel buddy hubby cannot
bring his work truck home throughout the week, we swap at lunchtime which has
him picking up the car at home. In this instance, it had him taking the pups and
me to the cottage to get the place warm and where I would finish my workday.
As I headed down the stairs, my
immediate reaction was that someone had stolen Stella. As I sauntered toward the
dock, I discovered that she had simply escaped. Will the fall colour in bloom,
I thought she looked so pretty perched in our alcove, keeping our turtles
company.
Not wanting to try and rescue her
with the unconditional help of two pups, and a premonition that I would end up
in the lake, I decided to wait until the next morning to hunt for the hip waders.
The next morning the closing
ritual began. Up and out came the pedal boat and dock ladder, in came the ramp with Stella
safely perched for the winter. With it too windy to burn, we managed to work at
getting the cottage close ramped up.
With everything out and up the hill
and the only task left is to shut off the water, we are officially prepared for the end of
another cottage season.
...Which has been our 26th.
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| Stella is all settled for the winter. TAKEN: OCTOBER 18th, 2025 |
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| What a beautiful view! TAKEN: SEPTEMBER 27th, 2025 |
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| Wee Katie Kate supervising the disconnection in progress. TAKEN: JULY 1ST, 2025 |
The weekend before my mother-in-law
unexpectedly passed, my travel buddy hubby and his best cottage mate finally
coordinated the dissection of the last fallen tree (from the ice storm) stuck in our shoreline.
They had tried several times to
connect but as it would have it, day-to-day life got in the way; until finally
the morning arrived.
A couple of efforts in
July (one seen above) to remove the bulk of the tree from stump had my husband realizing that no
matter what he tried, this sucker was NOT going to float away. It would have to
be dismembered and removed to shore piece by piece.
With Stella (our floating picnic
table) anchored to aid with keeping the tools dry, and wee Katie Kate once again
was in supervision mode, the project began.
They landed in the water that
Saturday morning just past 10am, I served them lunch around noon, and the last
of the tools were slugged out of the water about 2pm. Words can’t describe how
blessed we are to have such great neighbours in he and his wife. They are truly amazing.
So, check their effort out... Below are just a few photos of the last of the water trees from hell that have literally consumed our time since opening the cottage in May of this year.
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| Assessing to start... With dogs in the mix. TAKEN: AUGUST 23rd, 2025 |
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| Turn out my Dad's antique saw worked best because of Katie Kate's help. TAKEN: AUGUST 23rd, 2025 |
| Brittany IS da bomb! All photo rights reserved audiophix.com |
As I mentioned in my last post, we had such a blast at TIFF and then attending the Alabama Shakes concert at Budweiser Stage, I thought Brittany Howard (the lead singer for Alabama Shakes) deserved her own props.
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| He has always made me laugh! TAKEN: SEPTEMBER 6th, 2025 |
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| What an amazing vibe to experience. I LOVE THIS CITY! TAKEN: SEPTEMBER 6th, 2025 |
| Miya Maria (left) and Katie Kate (right). Soaking up the super fun Stella vibes. TAKEN: AUGUST 9th, 2025 |
With us having to unexpectedly cancel my travel buddy hubby’s birthday weekend in Montreal, I decided to use my Triangle reward points to buy new super speedy trolling motor for our floating picnic table.
Trouble was, with all the ice storm clean up, we never had the time to get it unpacked and attached when he was off in July.
Well, once we got my sister back home, we decided there was no time like the present to get the party started; and down to the dock we went to strap our girl into her shiny new double battery powered upgrade.
Honestly, I had no apprehension about it being Katie Kate’s first trek, which was probably my first mistake. To offer insight, I posted a series of neat photos on my socials with the following caption:
‘We got the pups out on Stella (our floating picnic table) this afternoon. A first for the wee Katie Kate.
It was spicy and dicey getting off the dock, and both girls only jumped off 4 times in the half hour we trolled. Which is probably why we were out only for half an hour!
Don't get me wrong, our dogs are very well behaved and very well socialized. They go everywhere with us.
So, I shouldn't have been surprised that as soon as someone on shore acknowledged the pups off the chart "cuteness factor," off of Stella they went. Quickly swimming the fifteen feet to say hello to the people and kids waving.
You know, I have shared here this season that I feel it may be time to tune up the fat lady and sell the lakeside shelter where we've spent the last 25+ summers.
Then we ultimately realize it will never be replaced... and how fortunate we truly are.
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| The worse part about using a chainsaw in a heat wave? Steel toe boots & long denim pants! TAKEN: JULY 13th, 2025 |
I would love to be able to write something as poetic today as, ’summer woes, I don't got none’; but that would be a lie.
Now that the mosquitos and blackflies battles have ended, enter the humidex and UV rays working against us.
Yesterday we did an extensive repair to our dock ramp. Just the two of us. With the help of a come along, a floating picnic table and a ton of rope. It was 32C outside with a humidex making it feel like 38C.
Today, in hotter conditions, we finished cleaning the stairs of fallen trees with the dueling chain saws so that they can be repaired next week when my travel buddy hubby is off.
At this point, I think we have processed 80% of the trees on the ground but only burnt 5% of the waste. I honestly think we will be into next year, with all the broken trees are still standing and need to come down.
As I hear my husband begin to remove stair treads so new stringers can be constructed, I am sitting upstairs in my office, typing and hiding. Something I have never done in summers previous.
I just feel that this year, with work being a 50-hour week and the magnitude of exterior work required, it's made me realize it may be time to sell.
Afterall, the plan was to use the equity to send the kids to post secondary school. We manage to weather that and got the cottage paid for AND we managed to burn our mortgage on our house on the 29th of June.... So, not all bad but still not all good.
As I hear my husband come in downstairs I am sure he’s looking for some assistance. Therefore, I will knowingly alter my sentiments today to… ‘Summer woes, I guess I got a few!’
#yagottalaughaboutit
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| Katie Kate is the epitome of a great team player! TAKEN: JUNE 28th, 2025 |
What a week.
I was so grateful when end of day Friday of the Canada Day weekend officially arrived. When we started our chores on Saturday morning, the magnitude of what had to get done really hit home.
Finding a good balance of owning and keeping a home and a cottage maintained twenty kilometers from the other, has always been a challenge the last two plus decades. Throw in an ice storm of a lifetime and the reality that there will never be rest is a harsh reality.
We’ve always invested in the right tools to do the exterior maintenance efficiently but there is just so much we literally choose our battles wisely. Saturday was 'whipper snipping, leaf blowing, and clearing the upper drive and ATV trail', as I took the hacksaw to any saplings’ I wanted gone.
With my travel buddy hubby in the hospital last summer, all our ongoing maintenance was overlooked; and the ache in my lower back Sunday morning was the reminder it was missed.
When I finished on the ATV trails and septic bed area, Miya and I headed to the top to see how our other crew was making out. As you can see, they were just finishing up and the team leader was rushing up the drive to give me her report.
Specifically, that her coworker WAS wearing his hearing protection, but NOT his safety glasses. After careful consideration, it was decided not to formally write him up. And that a verbal warning (this time) would suffice.
The corrective action was successful implemented once he began leaf blowing!
#yagottalaughaboutit
Important Notable: Not a single treat was not used to entice a favourable recommendation from our paw-fect team leader!
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| The first of many controlled brush burns. TAKEN: JUNE 21st, 2025 |
As we took our third stab at cottage clean up this past weekend, our focus was on the immediate beach front.
Our challenge wasn’t only that the submersed trees were larger, but that as a team we were
in a ‘lift and pull’ effort to get them out of the water and up our hill to be
processed.
With my travel buddy hubby’s mobility issue, I drew the only
straw to get in the lake, trim the trees to remove as much weight as possible,
then heavy ho them up to him and a chainsaw.
With no foresight to get into a bathing suit, I was wearing
a long-sleeved shirt and legging rolled to the knees. Within five minutes the
leggings were soaked. With the pups helping, within fifteen minutes, everything
was soaked – and not in a good way!
We processed three large trees out of the water last Saturday afternoon. The fourth, and last remaining, is in the photo I am sharing.
THAT sucker is the one that my hubby hit heading backward on his ATV, that severed the artery in his right leg and cause three brain bleeds, that landed him is St. Mike's Hospital Trauma Unit last summer.
That said, last fall we discussed cutting the tree down. A sort of cleanse to the shoreline of the constant reminder of a horrific accident that changed our lives.
Then the winter ice storm happened and it was almost as if the universe was sending us a specific message in the form of the tree falling.
...That message simply read, "I saw that!"
Signed,
Karma
#yagottalaughaboutit
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| A coincidental dinner party... Created a memory of a lifetime. TAKEN: APRIL 7th, 2025 Palm Beach, Aruba |
Before we landed in Aruba, we knew we wanted to eat at a specific steak house. Trouble was, there were only two seats in an evening, and they didn’t take reservations; you had to line up outside.
So, on our second night there we decided to roll the dice and see if we could get in.
We landed in line about forty five minutes before the doors opened and we instantly began chatting up two young ladies in line.
As they came out of take names and numbers of people dining, we asked the two if they would like to have dinner with us, as a table of four had a better chance at getting in than two tables of two. They cheerfully agreed.
As always, my travel buddy hubby was as comical as ever. He kept them laughing the entire time. When one of his jokes crossed the line, I call him by his name and said “that was far enough.”
The young girl (in the photo above) instantly turned white and asked if his first name was really what I had called him. When we said yes, her eyes filled with tears, and she began to cry. What she shared next had our jaws drop.
Earlier that day she had spread her husband’s ashes on Palm Beach (he had died of brain cancer), and he and my hubby shared the same first name. She was overcome with emotion, as were we once she'd shared.
In a nutshell, I believe we were meant to have dinner with those two, on that day. And though we never did get their names…. We will remember that evening together for the rest of our lives.
Truly X-traodinary!
| We will always WANT to travel. TAKEN: NOVEMBER 2014 (La Romana, D.R.) |
I think everyone sets up what they want differently. For us, it has always been openly discussed. The universal correlation between want and need.
When I started down the rabbit hole of making a point, I Googled want vs. need.
The AI generated response replied with this: "Need" refers to something essential for survival or well-being, while "want" describes a desire that is not essential for living but can improve quality of life. Which is why travel ticks both of those boxes for us.
Several decades ago, before I really understood how to manage my seasonal affective disorder, by Easter every year I was in a varying state of depression. So, starting when the twins were ten months old, we began using our tax refund to head to South Carolina for a dose of vitamin D.
Once the children finished post-secondary school (circa 2012), I began to contribute a weekly value into an annual travel fund. As I began to book all of our travel online, one week a year turned into two in the shoulder season; and a long weekend at the end of January – beginning of February.
With the severe health scares my travel buddy hubby as had in the last few years, we talk regularly when our travel adventures may end. Though we don’t know when that might be, we know one thing to be true.
We will always WANT to travel – but I also know, I will always need to travel.
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| Enjoying the upbeat music from our 18th floor balcony. TAKEN: APRIL 12th, 2025 |
Like most, upbeat music is definitely a part of who I am. As a matter a fact, any and all music is.
The trouble with live entertainment when you're on vacation, is it usually happens after you've had a day full of sun and snorkeling; so being in a crowd of a couple of hundred people when I am tired isn't at the top of my list.
Vacation or not, I should clarify that my travel buddy hubby and I are both morning people. Actually, when on vacation, we give each other an hour of grace. By 7am we are on our second cup of coffee and by 8am we are dressed and on the move.
So, by nightfall when the nightly entertainment gets started, I am ready to shower away the sand and sunscreen, and get begin to get ready for bed.
It wasn't like that last fall in the Mexico, but then again we were stuck in the middle of a tropical storm, so water activities through the day were limited - leaving energy for night time fun.
I guess you can say that this trip, we were given the best of both.
Amazing twelve hour days in the sun, and a balcony seat to the entertainment stage (lit up in pink and blue in my pic) at our sister resort next door.
Though we couldn't really see the singers and dancers, you can clearly see the theatre was packed, and the acoustics of the music flowing over was fine.
Yep, what can I say... an Aruban Michael Jackson with backup singer/dancers doesn't get much more upbeat than that!
#yagottalaughaboutit
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| Internationally recognized as a symbol for Canadian travelers. TAKEN: APRIL 9th, 2024 Palm Beach, Aruba |
As I mentioned with my chaos post, I have never had issue with any American when travelling. That said, before leaving, we knew the island of Aruba was an American travel haven, so my husband and I wanted to be easily identified as Canadian.
Well, this afternoon, when playing musical trivia around the pool, we connected with a few gals from Windsor, Ontario.
When I snagged the fastest answer for my favourite song (September but Earth, Wind, and Fire) we were asked to choose a team name. We chose Canada Strong.
Without hesitation, we were immediately and loudly booed. Booed by Americans in Aruba. Unexpected hostility, met in a country that markets themselves as ‘One Happy Island!’
Heading back to our room, I mentioned to my travel buddy hubby that if that is the temperature for Canadians here, I am glad we have decided no to cross the border and enter their country for several years.
I followed up with, 'I think our encounter by the pool is simply further evidence that our old relationship with the United States is officially over'.
… Which truly makes me sad.
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| Very gusty, kite surfing winds! San Nicolas, Aruba TAKEN April 8th, 2025 |
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| By mid-day tomorrow, I will be strolling on the white sand in Aruba (c) TripAdvisor |