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| Peace out summer of 2025 TAKEN: NOVEMBER 2nd, 2025 |
Sunday, November 2, 2025
PEACE OUT SUMMER
Sunday, October 19, 2025
STELLA ESCAPED
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| Our girl embracing an autumn adventure. TAKEN: OCTOBER 17th, 2025 |
After our epic day of burning on Saturday
September 27th, we spent the next few weekends in town.
With a Baker’s Dozen dining with
us for Thanksgiving, I had to steam clean our carpets the weekend before. A
week after our turkey coma subsided, we were back to the cottage to begin
shutting it down.
Because my travel buddy hubby cannot
bring his work truck home throughout the week, we swap at lunchtime which has
him picking up the car at home. In this instance, it had him taking the pups and
me to the cottage to get the place warm and where I would finish my workday.
As I headed down the stairs, my
immediate reaction was that someone had stolen Stella. As I sauntered toward the
dock, I discovered that she had simply escaped. Will the fall colour in bloom,
I thought she looked so pretty perched in our alcove, keeping our turtles
company.
Not wanting to try and rescue her
with the unconditional help of two pups, and a premonition that I would end up
in the lake, I decided to wait until the next morning to hunt for the hip waders.
The next morning the closing
ritual began. Up and out came the pedal boat and dock ladder, in came the ramp with Stella
safely perched for the winter. With it too windy to burn, we managed to work at
getting the cottage close ramped up.
With everything out and up the hill
and the only task left is to shut off the water, we are officially prepared for the end of
another cottage season.
...Which has been our 26th.
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| Stella is all settled for the winter. TAKEN: OCTOBER 18th, 2025 |
Thursday, October 31, 2024
MY HEAP-O-HELP
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| Our sweet Katie taking inventory of every one of her sticks being burned TAKEN: OCTOBER 24th, 2024 |
Up until my beloved Annie passed, I use to introduce her fur followers Miya and Katie like this.
"Meet our Miya, she is absolutely beautiful." Then, I would continue with, "this is her little sister Katie... And she is simply beaut-EVIL!"
It's always grabbed me a laugh to whomever was meeting them for the first time. But now that they are officially a pack of two, this little one has settled into not having to act out like she did, which I always felt was her puppydom combined with her need to be the center of attention.
At a mere twenty three months of age, I realize now how she struggled to fit in a pack of three. She always respected Annie as her pack leader, yet from the day she arrived, she terrorized Miya incessantly. I am pleased to report that said behavior has stopped since my sweet girl left us.
Now, I'm not in anyway leading you to believe that she has a halo over her head but her need to dominate over Miya is now very focused.
You see, her retrieving instincts are so deeply routed through her DNA that we have to expel the energy multiple times daily. Frisbees, nerf footballs, rubber pigs, and of course wooden sticks.
Take a dog with no fear, that vibrates when you pick up a stick, and you can imagine how hard it is to do yardwork with a fire going. I'm not kidding when I type that I have to throw a stick into the gully before I place sticks on the fire; because I am afraid she'll jump in to fetch them.
Think a toddler sticking its tongue out an accessible electrical socket. Her extreme personality makes one of my very favourite outdoor chores, extremely stressful.
Which you would never guess by the angelic expression of joy she shoots at me whenever a fire is burning close by!
Wednesday, October 23, 2024
SHOVELING SUNSHINE
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| With only about 30% of the front leaves fallen, it was time to start getting them moved into the gully. TAKEN: OCTOBER 16th, 2024 |
It started last week. For my afternoon work break, I started shoveling the fallen leaves.
You read that right, ‘shoveling’.
By dusk Thursday I knew I would spent the weekend in town, rather than going into the cottage. Simply because it hadn’t rained, and everything was dry. Shoveling dry foliage is much easier than the wet soaked crap, so by supper Saturday, though I was spent, all the leaves that had fallen to date were processed.
For those that have never tried it, I have been shoveling for years. You can simply move ten times more leaves by pushing them into the desired piles with a large snow scoop, rather than whisking a rake into the air trying to target where you want them to land if the wind cooperates.
I know I must look silly going through the motions, but I don't care. Believe it or not, my shovelling effort work more effectively than either of the two leaf blowers we own. Three if you count my travel buddy hubby plugging one of them in.
With 90% of the folks on the street retired and me working from home, I see and hear them moving leaves for weeks before we get on the band wagon. For us, it is a balance of finding the best time to blitz them, which usually happens when I see my neighbour next door blowing leaves back onto our lawn.
As I have always written here, I love fall. And this year has been a particularly memorable one weather wise.
The only downfall is I know what is on the way, and it is white, heavy, really annoying, and ALWAYS outstays its welcome.
Kind of like Donald Trump!
#yagottalaughaboutit
Tuesday, November 21, 2023
RED SKY SKUNK PATROL
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| One of the prettiest morning sunrises I have ever experienced at the house (no filter) TAKEN: OCTOBER 21st, 2023 |
You can imaging that the last thing we needed was our three
dogs getting sprayed when out for a pre-dawn pee, so that weekend we put up motion censored spotlights
around the yard and I purchased a 2000 lumen hand held spotlight so that I
could survey for eyes glowing in the yard before the dogs ventured out.
We've lived in our home more than twenty years and this is only the second time I have seen a skunk at dawn. The last time was more than ten years ago. I know they surround us but until this fall, our 6 a.m. schedules never crossed.
Anyway, this morning I had been out with the pups before my husband left for work and after pouring my second cup of java, I spied the most beautiful colours rising on the horizon. I grabbed my phone and headed back outside alone.
The colours were muted at first but as the sun rose higher, the colours intensified. It was absolutely breathtaking.
As expected, social media filled up with similar photos around Muskoka of the beautiful morning sky with the 'red sky at morning' reference.
Though I expect my red sky/skunk patrol will continue indefinitely, I don't expect to witness another sunrise as I did this morning for a very long time but there will always hope.
Speaking of hope, I hope we never cross path with them rascally striped smelly varmints we have been patrolling for every single morn...
Wish us luck on both counts!
Sunday, November 15, 2020
DINING AL FRESCO
In the midst of purchasing our current home, the lawyer called the day it was to close to let us know that the old shed in the backyard was encroaching on the neighbouring lot line. His professional opinion was that we should make the sellers move it.
Being the superstar handyman my husband naturally boasts being, he instructed the deal to close announcing that he would gladly relocate the shed. Pictured in the photo background, I don’t think he’s opened the door since he moved our crap into it and that was almost twenty years ago!
Anyway, when my father stayed with us in his end of life hospice care the winter of 2005, he was quick to establish friendships with the local fauna including these photogenic furry tailed bandits.
During his last housebound winter, he introduced an outdoor dining experience like no other - and by the time he left us that June, his newly established extended family understood what a glorious food source this happy go lucky chap turned out to be.
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| One of my many generations of friends born the spring of 2020. TAKEN: NOVEMBER 2020 |
Thursday, October 8, 2020
LEAF IT TO ME
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| Raking leaves... My pregame for snow shoveling! TAKEN: OCTOBER 8th, 2020 |
When walking in the evening with the pups the last couple of weeks, I noticed the neighbouring yards quickly filling with colourful foliage.
Tonight, a sight to behold, I couldn’t help but giggle thinking those vibrant leaves offer their ultimate beauty… When they are being cleaned up by someone other than me!
As you know, I chronicle in this electronic journal every October just how much I love this time of year. Everything feels crisp, the wood burning stove at the cottage makes everything really cozy, and gravy officially becomes my favourite food group.
For whatever reason, I find there is a harmony offered in autumn that no other season brings. A mellow sense of calming that I've enjoyed and embraced which always brings me into a familiar cyclical rhythm.
The leaves fall and get cleaned up. Enough wood gets split and piled. The garage gets cleaned out of spring and summer crap... and weekly outdoor burning of yard debris kicks off with the help of a wee bit of gasoline.
For some strange reason, specific fall activities seem to help me prepare mentally for the bright white blanket that arrives in early January; when my snowshoes relieve my angst.
All of that shared, I can’t help but be preoccupied with the fact that this will be the first fall in the last six that I won’t be jumping on a plane for a burst of November vitamin D.
I was chatting with my bestie today. She also suffers with Seasonal Affective Disorder in the same way I do. With everything locked down, we discussed what the next six months of darkness may offer. I know there’s no magic wand that can help but I am hopeful our daily check ins and dialogue will get us through.
As World Mental Health Day approaches October 10th, I can’t help look to the inspiring quote: “When darkness comes, let us not condemn the dark, but light a light to illuminate it.”
They mean that I need to buy more happy lights, right?
Because that’s how interpret it... as I head online with my credit card!
Monday, September 21, 2020
MY STEADY SEPTEMBER
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| My Annie on the left and my Puddin' going full tilt on the right! TAKEN: September 20th, 2020 |
Vacation the first week of August may have been a total bust but the weather the last week of summer more than made up for it. I don’t know about you - but there has always been something with the end of September atmosphere that genuinely put an extra skip in my step.
For obvious reasons, as fall approaches each year I always make the effort to give my pups as many unique experiences as possible. I suppose it’s because I know, for the most part, nature is preparing us to hunker down in darkness as we wait for the pre-winter snow to arrive.
As you can see from our last adventure photos, Annie is as active as toddler on steroids but the signs of Puddin’ officially becoming a senior are starting to visibly show. Therefore, I have decided that this fall has to be about a balance. Not just energy level balance. Overall life balance; not only for the pups but for me as well.
Such a big and important thought process (and learning curve) for me right now.
In my effort to strive and achieve it, I will no longer be working 50 hours a week and on call from sun up until sun down. I have disabled all alerts on my phone and I honestly try my best to power that sucker down before I serve dinner and leave it off until I wake the following morn.
That change combined with an inner twang for more personal balance, resulted in me reconnecting with my very best gal pal. It’s not like she and I were estranged per se, just both got busy with life in general and became accustom to the Bluetooth on the road home doing all the legwork for us.
I am pleased to report that this very steady September has us getting back to basics where the first question we ask the other is “...How are you doing?” I had truly missed that.
You see, for the last several years I had been so focused on others and their demands, that the little things that mattered somehow got lost in the shuffle. I guess you could say that prior to making this small, almost minor change in behaviour, I was always in search of the answer as to how to create change.
Then, on the evening of September 10th, I realized that I no longer wanted to wait for the opportunity of change. I understood whole heartedly I had to pull up my big girl panties and encompass and embrace the change I was searching for.…So I did.
The rest is up to me.
Friday, April 3, 2020
C IS FOR CANADA
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| I will always be proud and free. With an amazing sense of humour! TAKEN: OCTOBER 2016 |
If you've worn shorts and a parka at the same time, you may live in Canada .
If you've had a lengthy telephone conversation With someone who dialed a wrong number, you may live in Canada .
If 'Vacation' means going anywhere South of Detroit for the weekend, you may live in Canada .
If you have switched from 'heat' to 'A/C' in the same day and back again, You may live in Canada .
If you install security lights on your house and garage but leave both unlocked, you may live in Canada .
If you design your kid's Halloween costume to fit over a snowsuit, you may live in Canada .
If the speed limit on the highway is 80 km -- you're going 95 and everybody is passing you, you may live in Canada .
If driving is better in the winter because the potholes are filled with snow, you may live in Canada .
Friday, November 1, 2019
WINTER SUCKS!
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| My photos were taken exact 163 hours apart. I really do dread this time of year! TAKEN OCTOBER 27th & NOVEMBER 1st, 2019 |
It's as if Labour Day is the milestone signaling me to head the shopping mall. Thanksgiving brings the expensive and very euphoric sexy shoe purchase, and by Halloween the fun becomes strained.
Ultimately, by the time we turn the clocks back, the Visa bill with interest arrives; and that final buzz kill leaves me grumpy for the six long months of winter that follow.
Almost immediately after we 'fall back', I leave for work in the dark and arrive home under the same circumstance. The swashbuckling pirates that produce my bogus hydro bill begin to circle like vultures, and it takes every fiber of self-restraint to not put gravy on absolutely everything I eat. As an emotional eater, at least I know the latter feeds into my 24-7 need for comfort, when I am simply always glum.
The truth is, with 61 days left until the year ends, I sense I’m in high school again. Specifically in grade 12 Chemistry when my teacher gave me a passing grade. Not because I'd aced his class, just simply because I'd tried as hard as I could and never once gave up.
... and that WINTER SUCKS!
Sunday, October 21, 2018
ORANGE YOU GLAD?
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| Anyone else have pumpkim carving intuition? TAKEN: OCTOBER 20th, 2018 |
As I sit here typing toasty warm, whilst enjoying the fire in the woodstove with my pups at my feet, I can't help but sip my Sunday morning coffee and smile. Feeling blessed, yet again, that my 'happy place' tends to unconditionally provide us with a sheer sense of contentment.
This past weekend, we were pleasantly surprised to land to a much milder Saturday afternoon than expected. As a result, the last of the wood was split & piled, and the remaining brush was burned. I gotta tell ya, it feels great that nothing aches when I kill it outside like I did yesterday. Let's just say that I don't feel even close to the age that my passport hastily reports me to be.
Anyway, worried the weather was going to take a turn for the worst, it was decided that this past weekend was the perfect time to close everything down as well as do my traditional annual cottage carve that doesn't involve a turkey. Suffice is to say, I went shopping and found the above beauty for a whopping $2.88!
The good news is that I found the perfect pumpkin, the bad news is that I couldn't bring myself to carve it until next weekend. Like so many things in our everyday lives, my beloved creative gourd tradition reminded me (yet again) that timing is everything.
You know what I mean. When to buy, or when to sell. When to embrace, or when to let go.... Or in this case, when to carve, or when to admire. I guess you can say that I believe (in all of the above situations) our personal intuition generally wins out over any conscious reasoning. I consider great instincts right up there with keen practical common sense; where very few have one, let alone both.
For what it's worth, I am a firm believer that this time of year is always a great time for what I would call a 'fall cleaning'. You get rid of what you no longer need nor embrace, and that general cleanse process leaves you feeling great. I guess I feel less material and/or emotional baggage to carry through one of our long Canadian winters, makes snowshoeing in January a hell of a lot easier.
Soooo... Orange you glad that this glorious season labelled 'fall' exemplifies how beautiful it can be to weather great challenges, finally let go, then ultimately start over?
Monday, October 8, 2018
A FRESH FALL START
After close to 20 seasons of Orillia Lake cottage life, this was definitely a season of great change. The two sisters to the left of us swiftly sold their cottage, while the American widower to the right sold via a private sale and fled back to his homeland Labour Day weekend. I was sad to see him go but understand why. He unexpectedly lost his wife on New Years day 2017. She was the Canadian in the duo, so the sale wasn't entirely unexpected. The surprising tidbit's that there's general interest and buzz to privately purchase our humble abode as well.
Though our selling was officially tabled in May of this year, I think the part that surprises me most about our digs is even though the kids have no desire to come out and stay anymore, I seem to be attached to this silly piece property more than ever. I love that I am outside more than in, and I truly feel I am at my best there, not to mention that fall is always absolutely amazing.
So, as my favourite month creeps into the one I dread most, I honestly can't believe Thanksgiving is already behind us. A quiet celebration at the house yesterday left me not only thankful but also very grateful.
Grateful I've discovered that sometimes the smallest step in the right direction, can be some of the biggest steps in your life... and secondly, and equally as important, is that people will come and people will go. Those meant to be, will always want to stay!
Happy (Canadian) Thanksgiving all. I truly appreciate you reading.
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| Enjoying my happy place, alone, in the rain. TAKEN: OCTOBER 6th, 2018 |
Monday, October 30, 2017
PRAISE THE GHOURD!
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| 'RELAX' I said. '...I promise you won't feel a thing!' TAKEN: OCTOBER 21st, 2017 |
I can’t believe one of my favorite months of the year has a single hallowed eve left then it's over.
With my autumn vibe on and it officially kickin' it old school, I can't help but feel this year's passing us by far quicker than I ever figured it would.
Anyway, after my last post, I am pleased to report that the closest friend I've ever been blessed to have reached out via text. Both hardwired for success, over time we'd shifted our focus from one and other to individual results. Inevitably apart, we never lost touch.
As I prepare to let October go, I feel the need to report the Farmer’s Almanac I torched Labour Day weekend (for predicting snow would arrive and stay mid October) was truly burned in vain. Its blasphemous prediction resulted in a sad and somewhat unnecessary literary sacrifice on my part.
Note to self: Work on controlling your extremely combustible premature October reactions when they are attached to a very specific offering of 'top secret mathematical & astronomical formulas for predicting weather'!
Which I can only follow up with... Praise the ghourd!
In turn, y'all have 3 Bloody Marys as we await our nasty arch nemesis, November!!
#yagottalaughaboutit
Sunday, October 23, 2016
I GOTSTA MY AUTUMN ON!
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| Have you gotten your autumn on yet? TAKEN: OCTOBER 22nd, 2016 |
Thursday, October 13, 2016
PEANUTS FROM HEAVEN
So, after an aggressive growling and barking stint on a cottage Wednesday night, it was decided on that coming Saturday we would put her down. With no word of a lie, once those words were uttered aloud, she did a complete three hundred and sixty degree behavioural flip. It was almost like she instinctively understood that we’d decided her gig was up.
Well, more than a year later she’d doing very well. The majority of the time she moves slower than molasses in Muskoka in January but she still has an amazing quality of life. We help boost her into her bed in the bedroom when her hips decide to stay in the living room; but outside of that her disposition is great for a senior citizen.
My challenge with her is that winter is approaching and how do I help her manage in the copious amounts of snow that will fall. I knew I'd need to keep her mind sharp as well as her feet moving in the house because she won't be able to spend an extended amount of time outside. After careful thought I came up with an answer…peanuts. I figured if she can chase the squirrels outside at the cottage, why can’t she chase them inside around the house.
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| Dottie waiting by the door for her exercise buddies to return. TAKEN: OCTOBER 12, 2013 |
I started with the back deck. She has a dog chaise by the sliding door but when things are cooking she scurries from the deck to the dining room windows, back to the deck, to the living room windows and so on. (This weekend, I am placing a feeder on the big tree below my bedroom window so they can entertain her through the day.)
Not gonna lie, all the dogs have hopped on the bandwagon. I have been feeding the peanut hoarders for a couple of weeks and they will literally come within a foot of the sliding glass door when the last nut has been squirreled. I know some readers will say they are a menace and that they aren’t very smart; but our deck seems to be the hot spot for their buffet this fall. That said, I think they are anything but stupid.
Didn’t take them-thar suckers long to realize food was coming out but the dogs ain’t!
| Annie and Puddin' getting in on the action. TAKEN: OCTOBER 12th, 2016 |
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